SOUTH BAY YOUTH MENTORS, INC.           

                                     CHARACTER  -  INTEGRITY  -  LOVE

YOU'RE INVITATION TO OUR 

"FREE"

 "2018 FRIEND DAY EXPERIENCE"

 

Join us for a day and . . .                 


                
Ø Be Different
               
Ø Learn Life Skills

                Ø Intensify Your Character

                Ø Find Out What Makes You, You


Training Topics Will Include

      • Teamwork
      • Self-Worth
      • Communication

  Who:

  Boys & Girls

 

        Ages

 

    9½ to 17

  When:

  November 17, 2018

  9:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m.

 *Registration is from

  8:30 a.m. to 8:55 a.m.

  Where:

  South Bay Youth Mentors

  3601 S. Gaffey Street

  Building 837

  San Pedro, CA 90731

 


So come and join us if you want to …
      • Experience something different
      • Get out of the house for the day 
      • Learn how to become a leader
      • Enjoy teamwork activities

*At least one parent must be present to sign their youth's registration form.

Lunch will be provided for each registered youth.

Directions: South on Gaffey Street then turn right on 32nd Street. Building 837 is on your left directly across the field. Please park outside of the gate.

To request a program brochure or flyer e-mail us at:     sbymentors@gmail.com


GENERAL
 
The South Bay Youth Mentors, Inc. strengthens the foundation of good character, mental, physical, spiritual, ethical, and moral discipline, and helps youths to achieve a healthy balance between thought and action. If you're looking for a program that you can believe in and also belong to that will hold you accountable instead of coddling you, as well as a program that builds young men and women of good character and that are empowered to achieve success, then SBYM is the program for you.

SBYM refines youth character to seek good will by means of life skills taught. It cultivates youth character using proven USMC leadership training techniques. "South Bay" is the primary area served within Los Angeles County, and "Youth Mentors" is the title shared by both youths and adults. As adults mentor youths to achieve higher levels of excellence within life skills learned, youths are also groomed to become more knowledgeable mentors to their peers in school, church, home, and community. This winning combination enhances the Mentor and Mentee relationship, and raises the respect level from youth to adult. SBYM understands that...
          "YOU CANNOT TEACH CHARACTER, BUT YOU CAN BRING IT OUT."
 
South Bay Youth Mentors, Inc. is a non-profit youth educational organization recognized under Internal Revenue Service Code 501(c)(3). Contributions are tax deductible.


SITUATION
 

Mothers and fathers are doing all in their power to build their youths into young men and women of character. They're working hard, but the popular culture of today often works against them. Youths are bombarded with everything from bullying, drugs, gangs, sex, crime, to inappropriate behavior, and parents are really struggling. Since parents have a busy schedule it makes it difficult to make ends meet, therefore, SBYM has decided to team up with them to assist in their efforts.
 
SBYM has standards and we hold youths accountable. We turn pampered, frightened, or reckless youths into self-assured, responsible, effective young adult leaders.
 
SBYM also emphasizes to parents that while they need to talk to their children about values, their words will be meaningless unless they live them as well. Training starts at home, and SBYM follows up with insisting that youths always exercise integrity, healthy values, choose the difficult right over the easy wrong, not whine or make excuses, and to remember that real wealth is their character.



TRAINING SUBJECTS (Partial list of over 60)

Bravery                       Close Order Drill          Code of Conduct            Decision-making
Bullying                      Self-worth                     Spiritual Foundation      Peer Pressure
Character Traits          Teamwork                     Leadership Principles    American Heritage
Critical Thinking        Self-confidence             Flag Etiquette                Teen Relationships
Public Speaking          Personal Finances         Drug Awareness            Wilderness Camping


MISSION

To instill in youths a foundation of good character, integrity, mental discipline, and love for others that achieves a healthy balance between thought and action. To enhance the quality of life of America's youth by providing quality development activities that train, nurture and develops individuals to become healthier, stronger, and more intelligent leaders within our communities.


OBJECTIVES

1. To leave others vibrantly empowered in Judeo-Christian values, and life skills that generate good
    will and improve the quality of life.
2. To create and maintain a positive mentoring atmosphere for youths within the Los Angeles County 
    area from ages ten through eighteen in family values and traditions.
3. To cultivate a personal value system in youths that provides for a less stressful home atmosphere.
4. To reinforce the practice of personal values instilled at home during the youth's early years.
5. To stimulate an interest in,  and respect for,  higher academic achievement, and the history and
    traditions of the United States of America.
6. To encourage youths to resist and prevent the use of illegal substances.
7. To encourage youths to avoid the many pitfalls while promoting physical, mental, and social
    enhancement in their development.


MOTTO
 

Leave Others Vibrantly Empowered  


CREED

 
1. Render obedience to my parents, authority, and all others in charge of me.
2. Earn others' trust and confidence by my fidelity and abilities.
3. Keep my mind pure and clean by attending the church of my faith.
4. Carefully and diligently discharge the duties which I am appointed.
5. Practice self-discipline by staying neat, healthy, and exercising self-control.
6. Give the same level of respect to my subordinates that I give to superiors.
7. Give every situation my personal best.

GUIDING PRINCIPLES

1. We resolve to leave others vibrantly empowered.
2. The health, safety, and welfare of youths is paramount.
3. We value our youth's futures and will empower them to succeed.
4. We will uphold the core values of Character, Integrity, and Love.
5. We pledge to the parents to serve as positive mentors to their children.
6. We will never forget to value others first.
7. We grow by teaching.


QUALITY OF LIFE
 
SBYM generates good will and encourages positive interaction among youths and adults. Youths gain an appreciation and respect for academic institutions and higher learning as citizenship, school, home activities, and community service are evaluated and become important factors when rewarding their progress. This process helps to encourage youth discipline, individual and as a team, when away from the program. Good discipline habits remain part of the individual youth's character and are carried into adulthood. With their self-worth and self-confidence reaching new heights, youths learn to apply new confidence-building techniques to given situations and live healthier, happier, longer, and safer lives.



MILITARY MENTORS
 

Military members who regard their experiences in the U.S. Armed Forces the most valuable of their lives, volunteer as mentor instructors and become better equipped themselves. In today’s society the volunteer spirit has waned and people expect our government to solve too many of their personal issues while they rest idle. Military volunteers immediately learn that they make a significant difference in their community, and working with our youths makes them better parents too because they learn how important it is to take an active role in their own children’s lives.


LIFE SKILLS
 

Skills taught to youths include a spiritual foundation, family values, personal finances, employer employee relations, wilderness survival, bullying & self-defense, patriotism, critical thinking, reasoning, and other various workshops as exemplified by the United States Military. Youths that attain the desired level of expertise and confidence are empowered to give life skills instruction to their peers, as well as other youths within their communities. Youths are taught to share learned skills with their peers by leading one, two, or three hour training sessions.


BASIC TRAINING (BOOT CAMP)
 

This is the process that transforms individual youths into qualified Cadets. Here, youths are introduced to the personal character and emotional challenges that they must overcome to earn the title “Cadet Mentor.” The one hundred twenty five (125) hours of intensity and structure gives recruits all of the triumph they ever dreamed of as a youth. Training instills a sense of pride and personal accomplishment that forms a basis for a new found confidence and self-worth. Those who succeed will feel better prepared to accept and overcome some of life’s challenges that face youths today, and will face them better tomorrow as adults.


BECOMING A CADET
 

The SBYM program is equal parts agility, discipline and character. As youth characters are nurtured, youths become leaders capable of making right decisions under peer pressure. Youths are encouraged to give every situation their personal best, and they learn to overcome obstacles by leading change instead of fighting change. This level of skill is acknowledged when the  military-style Basic Training, referred to as "Boot Camp", is complete, and is understood by everyone who wears the uniform proudly.


FAMILY BENEFIT

 
Youth training does not only focus on newly established techniques; it simply re-enforces and brings to the surface the values that parents have instilled during the youth’s early years. A youth embracing their family values provides for a less stressful home atmosphere. Parent participation is encouraged and parents quickly experience that their involvement provides for a sense of confidence and power that is essential to increasing their children’s self-worth. The common interest shared by parents and youths increases the relationship and helps to preserve their bond.


CONTRIBUTIONS
 

Corporate, small business, community organizations and private contributions to assist with providing educational training, equipment, uniforms and rewarding trips are always welcomed and needed. Monetary contributions, regardless of the amount, help to offset trip costs and related program expenses. Scholarship donations for economically disadvantaged families of youths are also encouraged. In-kind and building repair and maintenance services that assist to  maintain our training facility are also accepted. SBYM Inc. is a non-profit youth educational organization recognized by Internal Revenue Service Code 501(c)(3) and contributions are tax deductible.


VOLUNTEERS
 

Active Duty, Reserve, and former military personnel can apply the techniques that they learned in the military not only to civilian life, but also to the nurturing of youths. The experience and skills these men and women have learned are at a premium, and are usually what distinguishes them from the average citizen. Members from all military services are welcome to volunteer as instructor mentors, and if not on active duty, a military discharge in good standing is required. Civilian volunteers that contribute their time by giving talks or presentations to our youths serve as positive role models. They introduce youths to present business practices, career options, and various work environments. The information and knowledge passed on to youths at this early stage in their lives inspires a career-minded mentality that helps them give attention to future goals. Youths become motivated to prioritize college and career selections and become better prepared for the workforce.



ENROLLMENT

Enrollment meetings are conducted in January and February of each year, and the enrollment period closes by March 1st. To be placed on our waiting list please email us your name, address and telephone number. We will contact you in October for the November "FRIEND DAY EXPERIENCE", and also in December to inform you of the following year's enrollment meeting dates.


CONTACT

 
Email:                
sbymentors@gmail.com
Message line:
      310/539-8762


FAQ’s

Q.  Who can join and what is the age limit?
A.  Boys & girls ages 10 through 17 (9 years of age if 10th birthday is before July 1st).

Q.  What is the cost to register my youth?
A.   The cost is calculated annually as uniforms and related gear costs vary from year to year.

Q.  If I enroll more than one youth can I receive a discount?
A.  Enrollment is the same for all youths because they receive individual uniforms and gear.

Q.  Is youth training held during school days?
A.  Training is primarily conducted on weekends however, longer out-of-town trips are scheduled
     during school breaks and/or holidays.

Q.  What if my youth has never spent the night away from home?
A.  The regimented activities distract youths and they quickly learn to trust our volunteer staff
     and program.

Q.  What if my youth has low grades in school?
A.  Low grades do not prevent enrollment, however, grades will be a factor when assigning
     leadership positions or for promotions to a higher rank.

Q.  Do boys and girls train together?
A.  Yes. However, each Platoon is assigned an adult male and female, and youths are separated
     during overnighters.

Q.  What if my youth is involved in sports?
A.  Training is just as mandatory as sports and youths/parents should consider their priorities.

Q.  Is this a military program?
A.  No. SBYM encourages higher education first, however, instructors are military experienced,
     military techniques are used, and cadets do wear a uniform.

 
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